Jamia alumni or wrestlers?

Recently a Jamiaet in Dubai "Mohammed Asif "conveyed his congratulations to newly formed Jamia Millia islamia alumni association, Riyadh Chapter along with stream of congratulation messages appeared on yahoo groups jamia millia alumni directory(http://groups. yahoo.com/ group/jamia_ millia_alumni_ directory/ ).
His message was very clear & straight with a piece of advice.
The advice given to them was based on his personal bad experience along with his observations regarding an association in Dubai called Jamiaets Global.
He was replied on the same platform by another Jamiaet in Dubai "Danish Faheem" advising him for some do's & don’ts.
Asif replied back to Danish point wise, Danish didn’t agreed.
Any how it was purely the point of view of two people using a common platform of JMI & trying to convey same message under different backgrounds.
It happened some time when people have different approach & many opinions followed by an agreement on some thing & disagreement on some.

ALL of sudden a new fellow "Javed Alam " appeared & conveyed his point of view in a different & threatening style via email to many people in anticipation if his message turned down by the moderator of yahoo group.
When I saw his message, I felt uneasy & replied in a polite way as a goodwill gesture without knowing the person belongs to JMI or not.
As expected, he replied to me with more unethical attitude.
I again replied & copied to all with a clear cut message of not being provoked by his useless attempt.
Infact what I have written was pretty simple "You scared me".
Why I did that?
It was for simple reason........No one knows about Javed Alam.
May be he himself knows about him.
Javed alam with an email identity javed_jamia70@yahoo.com doesn’t exist in India & in UAE as Javed Alam.
There fore it was a total waste to attend Javed Alam.
I remember one example & which goes like.....
Imagine you are at sleep at night while a BUG invaded to your privacy, sucks your blood to fill his stomach & you woke up suddenly after feeling the itchy bite!
You switched on the lights & try to find out the reason.
Finally you discover a bite mark on your body with no trace of BUG.
You are unable to find the BUG.

This example applies perfectly to Javed Alam.
You know he exist, but unable to find.
You want to treat him, but unable to do that.
What you remain with is a small/ tiny mark reminds you for a bite.

JMI values can’t be derived from the attitude of an ignorant person.
At the same time you can’t go behind each & every single person hiding his identity & using specific tone in a threatening way.
He termed asif, haroon as my associates, yes I do agree,
they are my associates.
All Jamiaets are my associates.
People are known by their works, judged by their attitude & recognised by their actions.
If one tries to taint some one wrongfully then it is his attitude & he will liable for it.
Some one tried to write bad words against me & an attempt to pull my family in on this blog's guest book even.
Let me make it very clear, I was & I will remain unchanged to what I have promised to my self & my alma mater.
Let them come, struggle & try any thing they want.
It will be dealt with diligence & appropriate manner.
There fore I request Asif & haroon to remain calm & don’t try to find "BUG" which disappear after biting them.
This kind of cacophony is nothing but frustration of few weak & destructive minds.
They try to provoke people in way to make JMI platform as a wrestling ground rather than a platform to learn, discuss, and understand to convey their feelings/suggestions for personal & community's welfare & benefits.
Let them do whatever they want....But don’t loose your head & temper.
DONT speak their language although you can do that.
You will see, there will be a time when this kind of infestation will be taken care by a proper pest control.
The time is not far.
Pray to ALMIGHTY to guide us on a right path.